A little more kindness, a little less judgement.
Counselling offers you the space that might be difficult to find elsewhere, to talk in confidence, exploring how you think and feel in a way that can lead to new perspectives, personal growth and long-term healing. It isn’t about giving you solutions or advice but working together, empowering you to make your own changes and find the answers that are right for you.
It could be helpful if you often feel you are not being your true self, are feeling confused or conflicted, stuck or lost, unheard or invisible, worthless or helpless, if you are generally dissatisfied with life, overwhelmed by your feelings or are struggling to make decisions.
If you feel there is something you need to talk about, contact me via the secure and confidential form.
I’m a person-centred counsellor with a holistic approach, recognising individual needs and circumstances whilst considering both the emotional and physical aspects of well-being.
I offer counselling to support clients through challenging times and emotional difficulties, specialising in narcissistic and abusive relationships and the lasting effects of trauma. In addition, I provide bereavement counselling services with a focus on support for individuals affected by suicide, sudden loss, or long-term illness.
I have a genuine and down-to-earth manner, building effective therapeutic connections by supporting clients with kindness and empathy. My aim is for each client to feel accepted, valued and understood. I offer an unconditional and supportive way of working together to facilitate deeper self-understanding, meaningful change and lasting emotional well-being.
Based in Dorset, I offer one to one telephone and online counselling sessions to individuals over 18 across the UK. I also offer counselling for clients with interpreters, including BSL signers.
Contact me if you have any questions or want to find out more about my service.
Suitable if you are seeking immediate support for a specific issue or if you are feeling stuck. SST offers a personalised 90-minute counselling session tailored to your needs, where we identify issues, set goals, and create an actionable plan for you to achieve them by the end of the session. This process helps build self-awareness, recognise strengths, enhance coping skills, and develop resilience. A 15-minute preparation session is scheduled in advance.
Follow up sessions are always available to reflect on the outcomes or talk about any difficult feelings or realisations that have surfaced during the process.
Short-term counselling is efficient and effective, addressing a here and now issue or situation causing emotional conflict or difficulty coping. Useful for issues like relationship problems, significant change, bereavement or redundancy. Sessions involve gaining a deeper understanding of the situation and its effects and gaining acceptance, enabling you to move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
All sessions centre on matters of significance to you, the agenda remains flexible to accommodate a change in priorities, adapting to insights, realisations and feelings as they arise.
Longer-term counselling addresses more complex or long-term issues, facilitating transformational change on a fundamental level. Exploring unconscious patterns of thought and behaviours contributing to difficult feelings, past experiences affecting your day-to-day life, sessions might include challenging beliefs, assessing attachment style or undertaking inner child work as appropriate, adjusting to align with individual needs and agenda.
Gaining insight into past experiences, trauma, abuse, relationships, family dynamics or childhood environment, supporting progress toward self-acceptance and promoting deeper healing.
All our sessions are bound by the Confidentiality Policy except when there is an immediate risk of harm that could only be avoided by disclosure or legal compliance. If this occurs, I will discuss possible disclosure with you and seek your consent when possible.
JD Counselling is registered with the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO). Personal data is handled in line with UK GDPR, the Data (Use and Access) Act 2025, and insurance requirements.
In the first session we’ll be talking about what brings you to JD Counselling, your expectations and what the focus of our work might be.
It is important to both of us that I explain my professional standards, clarify the boundaries and confidentiality of our work, and address any questions you may have.
It is useful for you to have a sense of my approach and my services, so that you can decide if they suit your needs. Following this, if you choose to continue, we can arrange our next session.
If I feel that what I offer doesn’t meet your needs, or that it would be inappropriate for us to work together, I will signpost you to an appropriate individual or support organisation.
It’s a talking therapy, providing you with dedicated time in a respectful, confidential space in which you might feel safe enough to talk about your experiences and feelings to make sense of them and understand yourself, alleviating emotional distress, conflict or overwhelm. It offers an opportunity to address one specific issue, current challenges or more complex difficulties.
Counselling is self-development work, a journey of self-discovery, growth and change in which you may get to know yourself in a new and different way.
Based on theory developed by psychologist Carl Rogers, person-centred theory suggests that people naturally strive for fulfilment and to reach their true potential. A therapeutic alliance based on equality, respect and trust, it emphasises empathy, unconditional acceptance and genuineness, creating a supportive and non-judgmental therapeutic environment.
By gaining personal insight you may understand yourself better and gain clarity on your feelings about yourself, others, situations or relationships. The therapeutic process can facilitate the discovery of previously unrecognised aspects of yourself and a move toward self-acceptance. You may develop resilience, manage emotions better, embrace choice, make decisions easier, cope with difficulties, learn to trust yourself, increase self-worth and make lasting changes.
Each client has unique experiences and varying needs at different times. Sessions focus on what is significant to you, the agenda is flexible to accommodate changes in your priorities.
I offer counselling support for clients going through life’s challenges and difficult times such as bereavement, anxiety, depression, anger, jealousy, stress, loneliness, change, loss, relationship problems, psychological, financial, physical and sexual abuse, lack of self-worth and trauma.
Certain topics fall outside my professional expertise for providing counselling support. In such cases, I will inform you and direct you to appropriate resources or support services.
I offer a single session (SST) addressing a specific issue and outcome, short term counselling for a here and now problem or challenge and longer-term counselling to explore in-depth issues.
I use Zoom for online sessions and will provide full details when we arrange our counselling sessions. For scheduled telephone sessions, I will contact you at the agreed date and time. For our session, you will need to be somewhere without distractions, where you will not be disturbed or overheard.
You always have the right to end counselling whenever you want to.
I am a registered member of The National Counselling Society (NCPS); a national professional body and adhere to their Code of Ethical Standards and Conduct including undertaking regular supervision, self-reflection and continuous professional development.
I am also a registered member of the Association for Telephone and Online Counselling (ACTO) and an accredited Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) practitioner.
My experience includes volunteering as a counsellor at the Herts Women’s Centre, where I provided support to female clients and co-facilitated the Freedom Programme. Additionally, I have served as a volunteer counsellor with St Joseph’s Hospice Bereavement Service (Hackney), receiving specialised training and working extensively with clients bereaved by suicide, sudden loss, and long-term illness.
In 2018, I established my private practice, JD Counselling.
Contact me to find out more or to arrange your first session. All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.
You can also call me on 07598 109 811 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first, I am happy to discuss any queries you may have.
Single Session Therapy (SST)
Online counselling sessions
Telephone counselling session
Availability:
I work with clients from across Dorset, London, Essex, Hertfordshire, Surrey and Buckinghamshire, offering one-to-one online and telephone counselling sessions throughout the UK.
I use Zoom for online sessions and will provide full details when we arrange our counselling sessions.
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